Can Serial Cheaters Change? Exploring Sex Addiction, Chronic Infidelity, and Healing from Repeated Betrayal

Can serial cheaters change —or is repeated infidelity a permanent pattern?
In this powerful and deeply compassionate episode, Nicola Beer dives into the complex world of chronic infidelity and sex addiction—unpacking why some individuals repeatedly betray their partners despite promising to change.
Drawing on 20 years of experience supporting individuals and couples through healing after betrayal, Nicola explains:
- The difference between situational and chronic cheating
- How sex addiction, emotional wounds, and dopamine addiction fuel repeated betrayal
- Why some individuals sabotage intimacy to avoid vulnerability
- How validation-seeking and emotional emptiness drive compulsive behaviors
- Why betrayal trauma is real—and how it affects your nervous system and emotional safety
You'll also discover:
- How to recognize whether real change is happening or whether you're stuck in false hope
- The importance of setting boundaries, protecting your emotional health, and requiring action—not just words
- The structured healing path for chronic cheating and sex addiction recovery
If you’ve been hurt by repeated cheating—or if you’re struggling with compulsive patterns yourself—know this: Healing is possible. True change requires radical honesty, emotional resilience, and deep emotional healing—but it can happen.
🌿 Free Healing Resources: at www.nicolabeer.com/gift
🎁 Download the Relationship Reconnect Toolkit for exercises and strategies to rebuild trust, communication, and emotional connection.
📘 Reclaim your self-worth and clarity after betrayal with Nicola’s Betrayed Breakthrough Workbook—short meditations, calming exercises, and healing steps for emotional recovery.
Healing starts with understanding—and the courage to choose yourself. You're not alone—and you are worthy of love, safety, and emotional peace.