Aug. 19, 2025
How to Choose Between Your Marriage and Your Affair - Infidelity and Cheating Insights
How to Choose Between Your Marriage and Your Affair
Are you emotionally torn between your husband or wife and someone else you’ve grown close to—possibly fallen in love with? Maybe your affair has already been discovered… or maybe you’re still stuck in secret confusion, unsure how to move forward.
In this deeply honest and compassionate episode, Nicola Beer shares what really happens when you're trying to choose between your marriage and your affair. You’ll learn:
- Why it’s normal to feel love for both people—and what that means
- How fantasy, dopamine addiction, and avoidance patterns cloud clarity
- What happens when you delay the decision or try to have both
- Real-life case studies of men and women who found clarity through action
- How to handle regret, rebuild trust, or walk away with grace
- A powerful question Nicola asks clients who fear making the “wrong” choice
- The 10-10-10 tool to help you decide with your future self in mind
Whether you're trying to rebuild your marriage, considering leaving, or taking time to reconnect with yourself—you’ll find guidance, insight, and real support here.
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