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April 15, 2025

Inside the Mind of a Cheater What They Think Before, During, and Afte…

Why do people cheat—even when they say they love you? In this episode, I explore what goes through a cheater’s mind before, during, and after an affair. Learn the psychology behind infidelity, including emotional disconnectio...

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April 7, 2025

Intrusive Thoughts & Relationship Anxiety : How to Stop Overthinking,…

Struggling with intrusive thoughts or relationship anxiety? In this episode, I share how to calm obsessive thinking, soothe your nervous system, and stop fear from sabotaging your connection.  You’ll learn how to: • Heal relationship anxiety •...

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March 4, 2025

Signs of Cheating, How to Spot Infidelity, Red Flags an Affair Might …

Is your partner acting different? Are you worried about cheating or confused by red flags that may or may not be real? In this episode, I’ll guide you through the most common signs of infidelity—changes in behavior, emotional shifts, digital secrecy—and how to tell the difference between real warni…

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Feb. 8, 2025

Are Your Relationship Expectations Too High. Signs, Silent Suffering …

Are your relationship expectations too high—or are you settling for too little? In this episode, Nicola Beer explores the signs of unrealistic vs. healthy expectations in love. She unpacks how self-worth, silent suffering, and unspoken needs impact relationships, and offers seven key reflection que…

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Jan. 24, 2025

The Surprising Gifts of Infidelity, How Betrayal, Affairs and Cheatin…

Advice for those going through infidelity, betrayal, affairs or cheating in their relationship. Infidelity is painful, but it can also be a powerful turning point for healing and growth. In this transformative episode, Nicola Beer explores the unexpected gifts infidelity can reveal—deeper self-awar…

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Jan. 17, 2025

How to deal with partner's phone addiction. Protect Your Relationship…

Digital distractions in relationships. How to deal with partner's phone addiction Are you feeling disconnected because of your partner's phone habits? You're not alone. Research shows that nearly half of people in relationsh...

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Jan. 10, 2025

Infidelity Recovery Steps & Understanding Attachment Theory: Heal Bet…

This episode covers infidelity recovery steps, understanding attachment theory and explores, attachment styles and cheating. Why do people cheat, even when they love their partner? And how do attachment wounds from childhood ...

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Jan. 4, 2025

How Pornography Affects Women in Relationships

In this we look at How porn affects women, porn use in relationships and the emotional impact of pornography. Pornography is often labeled as harmless or normal — but for many women, discovering their partner’s porn use can b...

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Dec. 27, 2024

Attachment Styles in Relationships: 5 Truths for Healing Attachment W…

Attachment styles in relationships, healing attachment wounds Do your relationships feel like an emotional rollercoaster? Do you crave connection but also fear rejection or distance? In this insightful episode, Nicola Beer un...

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Dec. 21, 2024

What Causes Decreased Libido? Understanding the Differences Between L…

In this powerful episode, Nicola Beer explores what causes decreased libido and how to lovingly distinguish it from asexuality — two often confused experiences that carry very different meanings. If you or your partner are st...

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Dec. 15, 2024

Holiday Stress and Trauma: Coping with Holiday Triggers and Emotional…

The holiday season is often portrayed as a time of joy, love, and togetherness—but for many, it brings up emotional pain, pressure, or even dread. In this heartfelt episode, Nicola Beer explores holiday stress and trauma , in...

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Nov. 22, 2024

How to Show Empathy in Relationships: Build Emotional Intimacy, Suppo…

How to show empathy in relationships, how to express empathy, improve empathy in relationships Do you find it hard to connect emotionally in your relationship — even when you care deeply? Have you ever been told you lack empa...

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Nov. 15, 2024

How to Handle Triggers After an Affair: Healing the Deeper Emotional …

How to Handle Triggers After an Affair: Healing the Deeper Emotional Pain When someone cheats, the pain runs deep—and the emotional triggers after an affair can feel overwhelming, even paralyzing. In this episode, Nicola Beer...

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Oct. 20, 2024

Effects of Porn Addiction on Brain Function, Intimacy, and Relationsh…

In this episode, Nicola Beer explores how porn addiction rewires the brain and damages emotional and physical intimacy in relationships . With instant access to endless explicit content, porn can overstimulate the brain’s rew...

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Oct. 4, 2024

Healing Childhood Trauma and Self-Esteem: Releasing Childhood Trauma …

In this powerful episode, Nicola Beer explores healing childhood trauma and self-esteem by diving deep into the emotional roots of “not feeling good enough.” Whether you’re carrying wounds from being criticized, abandoned, ov...

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Sept. 27, 2024

Explore unrecognized childhood trauma signs and how childhood trauma …

In this revealing episode, Nicola Beer uncovers the unrecognized childhood trauma signs that silently shape adult life, self-worth, and relationship patterns. Many people are unaware of how subtle emotional neglect or unmet n...

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Sept. 20, 2024

Hidden Childhood Trauma and Self-Worth: Signs You Might Be Carrying E…

In this powerful second installment of Nicola Beer’s series on overcoming the feeling of not being good enough, we explore how subtle and hidden childhood trauma can shape our entire self-perception. Even if your childhood ap...

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Sept. 13, 2024

Balancing Responsibilities in Marriage. How to Handle Feeling Overbur…

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Sept. 6, 2024

Healing Obessive Love (Limerence) and it's Impact On Relationships

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Aug. 30, 2024

Power Struggles and Emotional Needs: Decoding Relationship Arguments

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Aug. 23, 2024

Confronting the Affair Partner the Pros and Cons - Infidelity Advice …

Thanks for listening! For more resources on improving your happiness, well-being, and relationships, check out Nicola Beer's gifts below :=== CONTACT NICOLA === Visithttps://www.nicolabeer.com or email at nb@nicolabeer.com. === FREE RESOURCES ====...

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Aug. 16, 2024

Uncovering the True Causes of Relationship Fights - Overcoming Marria…

Thanks for listening! For more resources on improving your happiness, well-being, and relationships, check out Nicola Beer's gifts below: === CONTACT NICOLA === Visithttps://www.nicolabeer.com or email at nb@nicolabeer.com. === FREE RESOURCES ====...

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Aug. 8, 2024

5 Common Reactions To Infidelity That Hinder Healing - Affair Recover…

Thanks for listening! For more resources on improving your happiness, well-being, and relationships, check out Nicola Beer's gifts below :=== CONTACT NICOLA === Visithttps://www.nicolabeer.com or email at nb@nicolabeer.com. === FREE RESOURCES ====...

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